It goes something like this....
Well, don't use a gasket. Just use a gasket maker or RTV.
Ok - how does it work?
Well, clean both surfaces, just apply the gasket maker to one surface.
Ok - how much do I apply?
Well, it depends. You want enough to seal, but not so much that it oozes out into places it shouldn't be.
Ok - how much do I apply?
Well, no one really knows. So we guess.
Ok - what's next.
Well, you let it "skim over" for a bit before tightening.
Ok - how long?
Well, it depends. Temperature, humidity and how confined the space is all affect that.
Ok - how long?
Well, no one really knows. So we guess.
Ok - any special procedures for tightening?
Well, you want things snug. Tight enough to seal, but not so tight that you over-compress the goop. And it also depends on how long you let it "skim over" (see above for clarity).
Ok - how tight is that?
Well, no one really knows. So we guess.
Ok - what if I guess wrong and it doesn't seal?
Well, you have to start over.
Ok - I assume clean up is easy?
Well, no, not really. Clean up is a pain in the ass.
Ok - and if I screw up the clean up and don't quite get it clean?
Well, there's a decent chance that it won't seal again.
Is there a particular brand I should use?
Well, there are several. Most people recommend whatever they've had success with and they'll tell you not to use anything else because anything else is ****.
Is there a particular brand I should use?
In Australia and the motorcycle shops just about anywhere, they swear by Threebond 1215. They'll tell you anything by Permatex sucks. Here in the states - Permatex RTV's rule, but you might get some differing opinions about whether to use red or black or copper or "The Right Stuff" (which many swear is just the black stuff in a different applicator). They've never even heard of "3bond - whatever that is." Oh - unless it's a Honda. Apparently Honda's are made of something entirely different and if you don't use "Hondabond" it will leak. Oh, and if you've used it on Honda's then you usually feel that Permatex and Threebond 1215 are crap and useless. So you can use the Hondabond on other stuff besides Hondas. Then there's Loctite 515, 518, Aviation (for planes - has to be good) - which leads to Versachem and Permatex Aviation.....
Tongue in cheek. Of course, I'm already in all the soup I mentioned above trying to use Cometic gasket material and Versachem non-hardening sealant.
But it was therapeutic to write it all down.
Summary - everybody uses what's worked for them and recommends that to others. So it's all over the board.